Are You Poly… or Just Collecting People Like Pokémon?
There is a version of non-monogamy that sounds wonderful when someone describes it. “I have so much love to give.” “I don’t believe one person should have to […]
There is a version of non-monogamy that sounds wonderful when someone describes it. “I have so much love to give.” “I don’t believe one person should have to […]
There is a particular kind of loneliness that happens when you love someone who clearly feels deeply but cannot always tell you what they are feeling. You can […]
BDSM can involve some extraordinary experiences. Restraint. Pain. Pleasure. Control. Surrender. Humiliation. Praise. Service. Fear. Vulnerability. Power. Activities that would be inappropriate, unwanted, or harmful without consent can […]
Self Collaring, Collaring Ceremonies, and What the Symbol Actually Means There are objects in BDSM that can carry considerably more meaning than their physical form suggests. A collar […]
We spend a tremendous amount of time talking about subspace. What it feels like. How to recognize it. Why communication can become more difficult during it. What happens […]
Why Those Two Feel Similar… But Change Everything One of the most subtle mistakes I see in dating, BDSM, and relationships isn’t confusing attraction with compatibility. It’s confusing […]